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Marla Taviano's avatar

Smart and endlessly interesting. They got it exactly right. And for some of us, it's painfully personal. I'm on page 141 and fought back tears reading about Marabel Morgan (my mom had The Total Woman on her bookshelf when I was a kid) and The Act of Marriage (she had that one hidden but I found it and read it) and the women in unhappy marriages who bent over backward to please their shitty husbands (me). Just like these women, I went on to write books telling other women to do the same thing and I will keep saying this over and over: I'm so glad I never got famous enough to make it into your book. I've never been happier about mediocre book sales in my life. Your book is a freaking gift.

Wade Baynham's avatar

Thank you again for your work. I'm deeply encouraged by what you are doing, and that your work is breaking through the noise, heresy, misogyny and lies-- that have all too much influence around us.

Fern HaughtonOwens's avatar

I have pre ordered. Looking forward to reading this. As a black Christian woman who grew up in white evangelical churches, this will help me to continue to unpack and deconstruct my faith journey.

Kristin Du Mez's avatar

I’d love to hear your thoughts as you read.

Jean Lewis's avatar

I can’t wait for my copy to arrive. And you can tell your family, gracious truth, that a wise old woman in Washington state gives you five, hmmmm, how about 105!, gold stars for intelligence, diligence, integrity and truth telling that is costly and critical. I appreciate you and always learn from you. Thank you 👏🏻🌻

Barbara's avatar

I confirm that you are in fact smart and endlessly interesting. I'm definitely a cheerleader📣. I'm looking forward to reading Live Laugh Love. Jesus and John Wayne connected so many dots for me. Thank you for your "practice what you preach" faith and your strong voice backed up by solid scholarship.

TRANSFORMITY with Ken DeWyn's avatar

I didn’t need Kirkus’ review to convince me. You had me at Jesus n John Wayne. Congrats. Well deserved

A Sarcastic Prophet's avatar

As the happiest sad person on earth who also happens to be ambitiously lazy, I will admit that I did not preorder. As a person who is also usually a day late and a dollar short, I will be asking my library to order a copy which is where I access all new books. In the mean time, I thank God profusely that I grew up in a family and church that put emphasis on gifting others with our time, talents and treasures rather than limiting our abilities and service by gender. As a young woman in the eighties and nineties I thank God I found essays and poetry and fiction and memoir by Margaret Atwood and Madeline L’Engle and AS Byatt and Sue Monk Kidd and too many others to name to keep me intellectually and spiritually challenged and centered on what matters. I am looking forward to adding your book to my reading list for some more of that “fancy” writing. Thank you.

Charles Meadows's avatar

Congrats! Endlessly interesting fits so well for this whole subject. Somewhere on your socials there was a discussion in the past few days about the song "Trust and Obey", and how it fits into this. Who knew???

David Drury's avatar

Congrats on such rewards for all the endless hour of writing, revising, and editing!

Rob Pattison's avatar

Exciting! I pre-ordered at first opportunity and this review confirms the wisdom of so doing!

Steve Petry's avatar

Those are enticing reviews that whet the appetite for reading your new book. I’m going to. I’m very excited for you Kristin.

Mary Van Leeuwen's avatar

Glad the initiative reception of LLL has been so positive. Just a foretaste of what's to come, I'm betting.

Beth Allison Barr's avatar

Love this so much!!! (and same with my kids 😂😂😂). Congratulations!!!!!!

Kristin Du Mez's avatar

I heard my husband and kids scheming about coming into the comments here. 😂

Frederick Stevens's avatar

Jesus and John Wayne woke me up to a lot of things I was not understanding about the false gospels promulgated by “authors and preachers” that Oswald Chambers tried to warn about back so long ago. Around the time the “Scofield“ Bible was published.

Frederick Stevens's avatar

Congratulations on your latest!

Rebecca Stultz's avatar

You’re more than smart and endlessly interesting. I’d add curious, questioning, discerning and intelligent, then honest and courageous and persistent, plus humbly faith full. I think that adds up to fancy.

Congratulations on the positive reviews.

Erica Marsden's avatar

I have forwarded this to two of my daughters-in-law and a grand daughter, all of whom live in North America. I am also asking if Auckland Libraries will buy it.

So delighted that reviews are so favourable which will no doubt get the word out there, where it really matters.

I'm curious...have you ever come across a (ghastly) women's magazine called Above Rubies' which was aimed at Christian women here in New Zealand? It preached the sort of nonsense you are exposing and grappling with. And I confess I used to read it and tried, unsuccessfully, to be that kind of woman. I have way more sense now but was a bit of a slow learner.

Kristin Du Mez's avatar

Also, the book will release in the UK in October and maybe also in Australia/NZ?

Erica Marsden's avatar

I am looking forward to reading your book, mainly because I am curious to see how much we here in NZ have been subject to very similar attitudes.

Kristin Du Mez's avatar

yes! An earlier draft cited an article from it, but I think I trimmed that section down. But it’s very much part of this story.