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Is this a Reckoning?

The SBC abuse investigation and the chances of genuine reform.

Kristin Du Mez
Jun 3, 2022
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This was the question posed to me by Melissa Harris-Perry on WNYC’s The Takeaway today with respect to the release of the Guidepost Solutions investigation into abuse in the SBC. I paused for a moment.

This is exactly the right question to ask.

Are we seeing a genuine “reckoning”?

Russell Moore, former head of the SBC’s Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission, called it “the Southern Baptist apocalypse”:

“…how many children were raped, how many people were assaulted, how many screams were silenced, while we boasted that no one could reach the world for Jesus like we could. That’s more than a crisis. It’s even more than just a crime. It’s blasphemy. And anyone who cares about heaven ought to be mad as hell.”

The problem is, this isn’t the first “reckoning” the SBC has faced over the issue of sexual abuse.

Which raises the question:

How many “reckonings” can one have before we acknowledge that there is, in fact, no real reckoning to be had?

It’s tempting to locate the first “reckoning” in 2016. More particularly, in October 2016, with the release of the Access Hollywood tape. All eyes were on white evangelicals. Surely, people thought, footage of Donald Trump boasting on camera of assaulting women would be a bridge too far for his evangelical supporters, for “family values” Christians, the  “Moral Majority.” That’s certainly what Beth Moore thought. As a sexual abuse survivor and beloved Bible study teacher, Moore spoke boldly to her fellow evangelicals, pressing evangelical pastors on how they could think that support for an abuser wasn’t a big deal.

Moore’s voice may have been prophetic, but as is the case for most prophets, her words were not welcomed by her own community. The response was swift and brutal. Messages poured in from women complaining about her tweets, saying they’d never read another Beth Moore Bible study. Attendance at her events fell off. Her ministry lost millions of dollars. Evangelical leaders asked her to recant. She was bewildered: “Have I lost my mind?” she wondered. What for her seemed like a moment of reckoning was for others a blip, or worse, a reason to double down. The battle lines were being drawn. Trump was in, and Beth Moore was out. Acknowledging that reality, Moore eventually left the SBC.

She has, it seems, few regrets. Her response to the Guidepost Solutions report did not mince words:

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Beth Moore @BethMooreLPM
If you can dismiss or explain away this investigative report or do the bare minimum for the sake of appearances, still denying that your men’s club mentality was in any way complicit, my head covering’s off to you. Lottie Moon’s tiny little body is rolling over in her grave.
2:09 PM ∙ May 23, 2022
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We could look, too, to the #MeToo and #ChurchToo movements, to Rachael Denhollander’s powerful advocacy, or to the testimony of Jules Woodson. Each of these called for an evangelical reckoning.

We could look, too, to the case of Russell Moore. For all his apocalyptic rhetoric, Moore’s previous attempt (inspired in part by Denhollander’s witness) to reckon with sexual abuse and its mishandling from inside the SBC resulted in his being bullied out the door. (Observers note that he has yet to fully interrogate his own complicity in propping up the belief systems and structures that brought us to this point.)

Will this time be different?

From my vantage point, it’s doubtful.

Granted, my own vantage point gives me an up-close look at the backlash we’re already seeing. The day before the release of the Guidepost report, I retweeted a thread by prominent survivor Jennifer Lyell, quoting her own jarring words. (Take a moment to read her whole thread):

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Kristin Du Mez @kkdumez
“The *distinct* fruit of the SBC is not mission. It's power.” All of this:
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Jennifer Lyell @jenlyell
Here's some of what I don't need the SBC EC Abuse Investigation Report to know: 1. The silence of bystanders and other SBC leaders will keep destroying people if there is not a major (MAJOR) cultural shift in how the entity presidents/GCC lead in public & private. (cont)
3:14 PM ∙ May 21, 2022
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That retweet brought out a barrage of trolls mocking and disparaging me and accusing me of slandering all the good people in the SBC, destroying the church, and being a tool of the devil.

Jen’s poignant response:

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Jennifer Lyell @jenlyell
@john_starke @howertonjosh @PastorBenMarsh @ErikReed Also, if any SBC pastor cared as much about all the 4 yrs of failures by the SBC to tell the truth about my abuse case repeatedly corroborated by 2 entity heads + pastors after investigated/confronted, as y’all care about @kkdumez’s tweets then my life wouldn’t be rubble.
4:10 AM ∙ May 22, 2022
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I shared my skepticism about the potential for change in last week’s newsletter. Meanwhile, Jen still has received no apology from any of those who slandered her or stood by as others did.

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Jennifer Lyell @jenlyell
FYI- since report released I’ve not received any apologies or contact from any SBC leader, pastor, elder, media outlet, or individual who publicly or privately attacked me over the last 3 years asserting no basis to believe I reported nonconsensual conduct or reporting an affair.
5:37 PM ∙ May 28, 2022
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Soon after, I noted how powerful men used language like “brother in Christ” to perpetuate abusive systems.

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Kristin Du Mez @kkdumez
In my research I saw how “brother in Christ” was consistently used by men to prop each other up, flatter, defend, exclude, signal who merited deference, who was the good guy. The words Chrs use do things& also obscure things, but usually w/o people noticing. It’s how power works.
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Jacob Denhollander @JJ_Denhollander
One of the reasons Guidepost's report is so powerful & effective in making people realize what is going on is that it lays the facts out with none of the spiritualizing or "Christianese" used by leaders to justify their behavior. No "brothers," no "sisters," just ugly truth.
12:12 PM ∙ May 28, 2022
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Here, too, the pushback was fierce. William Wolfe, a former Trump staffer and current PhD student at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, attempted to discredit my scholarship and advocacy on abuse by suggesting that, as a scholar of gender indirectly influenced by the work of Foucault, I am thus “gladly associated with child rapists” and he was therefore not going to take seriously anything I say related to abuse. (To be fair, I cannot recall him ever taking anything I say seriously on any topic.) What is important to note here isn’t the absurdity of Wolfe’s claims, but rather the silence of the “respectable” SBC types, including his own professors, in the face of such behavior. It is the genteel silence of “respectable” men that allows malicious words like this to go unchecked, and this is precisely how toxic cultures persist. And how abuse goes unchecked, for decades.

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Kristin Du Mez @kkdumez
In case you’re curious about the lengths to which some will go to avoid dealing w/ abuse in their own spaces & how low they’ll stoop to try to disparage those of us working to expose that abuse. Apparently this behavior is consistent w/ SBTS code of conduct. Explains a lot. 1/4
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3:01 AM ∙ May 31, 2022
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More significantly, this week we also saw two of the three candidates for president of the SBC post tweets downplaying the investigation’s findings or attempting to discredit them:

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Tom @tomascol @tomascol
I am reading through the SATF recommendations for #SBC22 & looking for any Scripture reference & can't find one, not even in the rationales. Did I simply overlook them? #changethedirection sataskforce.net/updates/task-f…
3:27 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
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Robin Hadaway @robin_hadaway
SATF report troubling. SBC has about 14.5 million members. Total accused & convicted abusers over 20 year span - about 700 persons. This translates to about .00005 of our total membership. #RememberTheMission
robindalehadaway.comRobin Hadaway | Remember The MissionInformation about Robin Hadaway and the rationale of why I am allowing my name to be placed in nomination as SBC President. REMEMBER THE MISSION.
6:34 PM ∙ May 31, 2022
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I watched, too, as leaders of the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood had very little to say on the abuse investigation, despite being closely affiliated with the SBC. Instead, both Denny Burk and Colin Smothers retweeted an article questioning the legitimacy of the report and its recommendations and suggesting that the recommendations “essentially represent a progressive takeover of the SBC:”

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𝕸𝖎𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖊𝖑 𝕮𝖆𝖗𝖑𝖎𝖓𝖔 @MichaelCarlino
“In summary, the recommendations in the report essentially represent a progressive takeover of the SBC, utilizing the same pattern of of Title IX style administrative control used by progressives in higher education (and elsewhere).” ~@aaron_renn
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Megan Basham @megbasham
“In the Protestant world, outrage over abuse is curiously selective and often associated with political attempts by activists to insert themselves as the leaders of the institution being accused.” Hmmm. ⁦@aaron_renn⁩ worth reading as always. https://t.co/1QLqMLoHIQ
2:22 AM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
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In light of all of this, I confess that it’s hard not to become cynical. Very little seems likely to change.

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Kristin Du Mez @kkdumez
Just sitting here watching evangelical Protectors of Women™️ sending out a flurry of tweets about the evils of rainbow flags and #PrideMonth while downplaying or straight up attempting to undermine the findings & recommendations of the SBC abuse investigation.
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6:52 PM ∙ Jun 2, 2022
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I do, however, want to highlight some thoughtful responses from within conservative evangelical spaces. All of these threads are worth reading and reflecting on:

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Jacob Huneycutt @jacobhuneycutt_
🧵: It seems a prevailing "conservative" narrative all of the sudden is that sexual abuse in the SBC is not a big problem because *only* 700 people are listed on the secret file of abusers that the Executive Committee was keeping. This is such a shamefully awful take. (1/12)
3:56 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
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hannah anderson @sometimesalight
ISTM that 1 unifying thread of folks resisting the Guidepost report is their level of comfort w/ abuse of power. It's not simply about whether they're comfortable w/ sexual abuse--it's whether they're comfortable w/ leaders who enjoy the perks of power but fail its duties.
1:15 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
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Griffin Gulledge @griffingulledge
It’s a horrible tweet. But I can’t get past the choice of comparison: why compare pastors to total members? Why not compare pastors to churches, in which case oversimplified math might lead you to say that 700 abusers in 44,000 churches mean 1 abuser in every 62 churches.
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Robin Hadaway @robin_hadaway
SATF report troubling. SBC has about 14.5 million members. Total accused & convicted abusers over 20 year span - about 700 persons. This translates to about .00005 of our total membership. #RememberTheMission https://t.co/pjqYEvSv38
1:46 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
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Jacob Denhollander @JJ_Denhollander
If you can't chase Paul Pressler and Paige Patterson from the denomination without losing the "conservative resurgence," then your so-called conservative resurgence was never about the Bible, it was about politics and personalities. I think it can be done. Do SBC leaders?
3:56 PM ∙ May 28, 2022
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In the end, however, I keep looking not just for thoughtfulness, but also for evidence of change—of people who were part of the problem acknowledging their complicity and resolving to make amends and change their ways. The sort of change Mike Leake recounted in a thread last week.

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Mike Leake @mikeleake
This is an important question. I'm not an expert and I think everyone has their own unique journey, but I'll share some of my story if it might be helpful. For me (as I think with many) my "breakthrough" happened in layers. A 🧵
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Shaun of the Dead (LIGHTNING SZN) ⚡⚡⚡ @jones_shaun
@mikeleake Out of curiosity, what people/actions were present that finally broke through to you? What kind of approaches? I think knowing this would be useful as far as trying to wake up others as well.
9:51 PM ∙ May 24, 2022
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This is the kind of shift that will be necessary, individually and institutionally. Otherwise, any talk of reckoning is empty.

If there is any chance of genuine reform, it will take the determination and persistence of many courageous individuals. Would-be reformers should expect to be resisted and bullied. Just ask Beth Moore and Russell Moore. More importantly, read survivors’ harrowing accounts.

Yet it was survivors’ courage and remarkable resilience in the face of devastating resistance that brought us to this place that demands genuine reckoning. Allies, too, have a critical role to play. It was only the actions of determined messengers who cleared the way for this investigation, making sure that it would be independent, that privilege would be waved, and that it would be made public.

What happens in Anaheim will be critical, but only as a first step. I still can’t say that I’m optimistic, but for countless survivors, and for the SBC itself, the stakes are so high that it’s worth the fight. If survivors could persevere against all odds and in the face of such cruelty and disparagement for so long, those who care about truth and justice owe them the same.

For more on the SBC abuse investigation and links to theology and the Conservative Resurgence, visit Diana Butler Bass’s Substack newsletter.

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John Mulholland
Jun 4, 2022Liked by Kristin Du Mez

IMHO, reckoning can only happen if the system changes.

Since the conservatives changed the system and intend to maintain control,

I see no way for a reckoning to happen.

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Charles F.
Jun 4, 2022

I wish I could hope. But I have too much memory of how hard and cold the takeover (excuse me, "conservative resurgence") was, and too many of the people among whom I was raised who are either all in with it or simply don't care as long as they are secure and unaffected.

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